So sorry Brother. It isn't easy. Living up north I went through the same thing. First I lost my daughter to the decision of the courts because my Ex told them I punched a hole in my bedroom door so my kids could watch my 2nd wife and I have sex. There was no questions or investigation of proof. That was 1994, she was 10. Five years later, she was able to convince my Son that I was worthless and I never saw him until my Father passed 8 years ago. When I got a chance to talk to him, He still won't speak to me because of whatever she told him.
It is never easy brother. The only thing we can do is hold our heads high and carry on. One day things may change, but NEVER let them know your weaknesses. That is what the vultures pray on. If you need someone to talk too, I am here. Prayers for strength are with you.